Chapter 36 – The Power and Reward of Vulnerability Excerpt from the book:The Path Within
As we grow up many of us learned that vulnerability is a form of weakness and that we must keep our guards up against others who might exploit us. While this fear-based advice may have been a well-meaning attempt to protect you, it may have made you too guarded. If you now have your guard up against everything, you are unable to interact with the world in a way that is emotionally rewarding to you. Raising your emotional guards won’t protect you but it will imprison you.
In addition to creating resistance against the world around you, raising your guard causes you to begin to fear what might be outside this wall of resistance and as you participate less with the outside world, you begin to construct fearful, suspicious assumptions about it. You begin to imagine that your fear comes from the external Universe and you conclude it to be harmful by nature. This is a perfect recipe for anxiety.
As we navigate our lives, we come to learn that when you push someone, they tend to push back. When you fight, there is vengeance. We incorrectly assume that the Universe is also capable of vengeance and might harm us when we become vulnerable. The Universe doesn’t actually work this way; when you stop fighting the reality of the Universe, it doesn’t retaliate. Instead it actually embraces you and collaborates with you.
Becoming vulnerable to the Universe is the ultimate sign of strength, not weakness. Interacting authentically and vulnerably is how we relate with the Universe in a way that lacks all pretense and is ultimately freeing and rewarding.
The Path Within is not an instruction manual on best practices or methods by which to live your life. This book leads you through a self-discovery process to help you discover and develop your authentic self within the context of your own unique life.
This book promises to demystify and challenge some of the popular notions of our time. To restore your faith in the Universe as a diverse and benevolent whole that sustains life within its harmony, to understand the origins of the belief systems that enslaved us and to challenge the modern day philosophers who complicate and confuse us by telling us how we should reinterpret our life, thereby making life and happiness more difficult to achieve – as if following a single protocol and lifestyle could ensure happiness.
For starters, you will have the opportunity to observe the world with fresh eyes on a basic level, similar to how a Taoist would see the world. You will learn that most people really don’t care much about you…. yet in a good way! You will also learn that the Universe is not out to sabotage you, nor can you hold it accountable for your wellbeing. The Universe doesn’t owe you and it doesn’t seek you out to harm you. You will even learn that Murphy’s Law is most unlikely to be true and how you choose many of your experiences.
You’ll learn how Home the law of attraction and manifestation really work within a real and logical world. Continue reading →